AAUW Honolulu Women's Circle

Women's Circles are a gathering of women for women, a supportive space where women can connect, share, and empower each other. Our goal is to develop a network of working women to support each other, share best practices/tips/tricks, and advocate for improvements to business policies and public policies.

April 22, 12-1:30pm

Lunch: O'Kim's Korean Kitchen

Theme: Advocating for Yourself!

Location: Kōʻula,1000 Auahi St, Honolulu, HI, Grand Dining Room*

*Detailed directions will be sent a few days before the event.

Exploring our next topic: Advocating for Yourself

Join us for meaningful conversations in small groups focused on building your self-advocacy skills. Choose the area where you want to grow:

1. Negotiation & Compensation

Master the art of asking for what you're worth

• How to confidently request raises and promotions

• Setting fair pricing as a freelancer or business owner

• Negotiating better benefits and contract terms

Discussion Questions:

• When was the last time you negotiated for yourself? What went well or could have gone better?

• What's your biggest fear when discussing compensation?

• What's one specific situation coming up where you need to advocate for fair compensation?

• How do you research your market value before negotiations?

  
  

2. Setting Boundaries & Saying No

Protect your time and energy without guilt

• Creating healthy work-life boundaries

• Handling difficult conversations with confidence

• Prioritizing your personal time and wellbeing without apology

Discussion Questions:

• What boundary do you find hardest to maintain in your professional or personal life?

• How do you currently respond when someone asks too much of you?

• What physical or emotional signals tell you your boundaries are being crossed?

• What's one boundary you wish to establish or strengthen this month?

  
  

3. Speaking Up & Being Heard

Make your voice count in every room

• Developing assertive communication techniques

• Overcoming imposter syndrome and self-doubt

• Ensuring your contributions are recognized and valued

Discussion Questions:

• When do you feel most confident speaking up? When do you hesitate?

• What strategies have you used when someone interrupts or talks over you?

• How do you prepare for important discussions where your voice needs to be heard?

• What would change in your life if you consistently advocated for your ideas?

4. What other topic do you want to discuss under the larger theme of advocating for yourself?

RSVP today to join the conversation and build your self-advocacy toolkit!